A guide to pen palling

Having a pen pal is a great way to meet new people and have fun while writing. Photo by Camelia Heins.

By Camelia Heins, Staff Writer

Pen palling is a great way to meet new people around the world. For many teenagers, it can be used as a creative outlet to express and share their art with others.

How to find a Penpal:

One way to find a pen pal is through Instagram. If you search under the penpal hashtags, you can find accounts dedicated to posting their pen pal letters online. Not only are these accounts great for sources of inspiration, but many of them have posts to help you find a pen pal. Leave a comment with a brief introduction of yourself on any “Find a pen pal” posts or DM other people who left comments. Get to know your pen pal before giving them personal information and pen palling. 

Another way to find a pen pal is by signing up for pen pal websites. Global Pen Friends, Pen Pal World and Interpals are a few examples. However, you should be cautious on these online websites. Finding a pen pal might take a while, but don’t lose patience.

Pen palling doesn’t just have to be with someone you don’t know. You can also pen pal with friends or family. You could even ask your language teacher if they’re interested in starting a pen pal program with countries that speak the language being taught. It’s a great way to meet new people and improve your fluency in another language. 

What you need:

You need paper, pens or pencils, envelopes and stamps. Here are some optional materials you can add to your letter:

  • Stickers
  • Washi tape
  • Colored markers
  • Stickers
  • Post-it notes
  • Stationery
  • Postcards
  • Pictures (if you feel comfortable) 
Here are some commonly used supplies while penpalling. Photo by Camelia Heins.

There are three types of pen palling. “Snail mail” is the traditional way of pen palling through paper from address to address. The second way of pen palling is through email and the last way is digitally through apps like Slowly, HelloTalk and PenPals

In your letter, you can write an introduction about who you are and where you’re from. You can add little tidbits about how your day was going or you can talk about your hobbies. You can also add questions to ask your pen pal to get to know them better. 

Tips:

  • Talk to your penpal before exchanging addresses and use common sense. Don’t give your address to someone sketchy or someone you don’t trust. Think wisely and make good decisions.
  • Be creative! Let your creativity run wild when making your letters to your penpal.
  • Follow the format or switch it up. Usually “snail mail” includes a main letter, a card for questions and answers and your current favorite music. Many penpals include extras like washi tape samples, sticky notes and stickers as well. However, this part is completely optional. You don’t have to follow this format at all. You’re free to include anything you want to send to your penpal.

Pen palling is fun once you get the hang of it. Before you know it, you’ll have multiple pen pals from different countries. Just give pen palling a try; you won’t regret it.